Showing posts with label clearing the air. Show all posts
Showing posts with label clearing the air. Show all posts

Sunday, August 3, 2014

The Thought Process of My Birth Mom

Photo Credit: DivineSkye Photography

Now, we all know that I was adopted into a family at 9 days old. But I get the question "Why were you adopted?" Or comments like "Your Birth Mom gave you up because she didn't love and want you" or things like "You were a mistake, you shouldn't of been born" kind of things that particular statement was from incredibly ignorant and uneducated people. 

The thing is, I was put up for adoption because my Birth Mom did love me, with all of her heart. She gave me life and a life I believe is no mistake. She loved me enough to put her feelings and love aside and think about what a couple could give me versus what she could give me. She could give me love, yes that's a fact but she didn't have the income to provide for a new born, child and teenager at the time. She did what was best for me and for her to do that, I can't thank her enough for choosing the couple that she did because they're amazing, loving, supportive, responsible, genuine and funny people. 

Margie, if you ever read my blog, I am so thankful that you gave me life and put me into a couples life to complete their family. I hope to meet you one day!